i don’t know how to tell you this but
1. crossdressing/femboys/etc are not celebrated in cisgender society no matter how annoying and sexist that reddit man is about transfems
2. for a truly massive massive amount of people, “transness” and “transition” is a completely unavailable social/chemical technology for parts of if not much of their life. example: i was raised christian, and whilst i knew what trans people were in the pop cultural sense, i understood them as “definitely a totally completely separate thing” to my urges to be a woman, which i thought were practically impossible. people like that are the perhaps some of most vulnerable to exist in the periphery of transness, and ostracizing those people will not magically make transness a more likely option for them.
3. sincerely and genuinely ask yourself that if a “cisgender man” who presents as/works as/performs as woman (even partially) — is he safe from workplace discrimination should this be found out? How would the teachers at his kid’s school react? etc. Now ask yourself why you don’t consider this “transmisogynisation” as you would with any other egg.
People love to pretend they care about eggs but then are in totality hostile to the largest and most obvious demographic of eggs on the planet because it’s inconvenient for optics