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Maxwell the Dumbass, 22, trans and gay, loved men so much that I got jealous and became one

BTW if you call yourself a transfeminist you HAVE to get educated on racial intersectionality. It is not optional. The fact that the transfeminist movement is largely on Tumblr, a site that continues to delete every single Black user it possibly can, has made it so that this site is overrun with white transfems who fall into the exact same trap as the tme transmisogynists we speak out on.

NEVER let yourself think that you are immune to bigotry. NEVER. Just because the movement as a whole pledges racial justice, doesn't mean that you aren't actively harming Black people, both in our community and outside of it.

hey if your tme mutuals are reblogging your posts about how much of a problem femboys are i think there might be a flaw in your transfeminism

it’s crazy how far and away, every single time, the only “cisgender men” people are confident mocking are the ones who aren’t performing maleness.

tbc i would be just as disgusted by this behaviour were it aimed at “crossdressers” etc too. if you aren’t trying to make crossdressing firstly a morally neutral action and secondarily something that will eventually no longer exist as a concept (thru the degendering of clothes & bodies), then your transfeminism isn’t worth shit

i don’t know how to tell you this but

1. crossdressing/femboys/etc are not celebrated in cisgender society no matter how annoying and sexist that reddit man is about transfems

2. for a truly massive massive amount of people, “transness” and “transition” is a completely unavailable social/chemical technology for parts of if not much of their life. example: i was raised christian, and whilst i knew what trans people were in the pop cultural sense, i understood them as “definitely a totally completely separate thing” to my urges to be a woman, which i thought were practically impossible. people like that are the perhaps some of most vulnerable to exist in the periphery of transness, and ostracizing those people will not magically make transness a more likely option for them.

3. sincerely and genuinely ask yourself that if a “cisgender man” who presents as/works as/performs as woman (even partially) — is he safe from workplace discrimination should this be found out? How would the teachers at his kid’s school react? etc. Now ask yourself why you don’t consider this “transmisogynisation” as you would with any other egg.

People love to pretend they care about eggs but then are in totality hostile to the largest and most obvious demographic of eggs on the planet because it’s inconvenient for optics

i’m having an argument with my family

everytime i see a poll like this where OP is like settle an argument for me and one option has the overwhelming majority of the votes, I cant help but imagine a world in which OP is now realizing they might actually be the weirdo who doesn't read the instructions on microwave food

no, no. I’m on team “reads the instructions”. Believe me.

hi im pavizi. also known as stephanie. i am currently in the process of trying to flee the u.s. state of florida as living here has become Very Untenable for me as a trans woman. if you like my work and you have the ability it would mean a lot if you could spare something to help me get the heck outta here!!!!!!! thank you :)

the bad news: I now hate my current wip and strongly believe there isn't a single joke in it that lands

the good news: I know my process enough to recognize this as the slump that I hit in everything I write when it's like three-quarters-ish done

the bad news: the only way out is through

the good news: I do know the way out!

the bad news: yeah but it's through

making a cross stitch that says "I am funny and he would fucking say that" to hang directly above my monitor

"hey toast you stayed up past midnight because you were working on the fic and not because you were procrastinating by making a hideous pattern for a joke cross stitch" have you never met a writer before

gonna tell my kids this was live laugh love

Funniest sprite of all time is the Doctor from B2W2

> Holding a stethoscope to a Pokeball instead of just, you know, using it on the Pokemon directly

> Clearly can't hear anything because it's plastic

> Also can't hear anything because he's slapping the stethoscope against the Pokeball instead of pressing and holding it

> When he obviously fails to hear anything with his incredibly flawed method, he resorts to just holding it up to his ear as if that's going to help

> This man has not been to medical school

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